We went to the streets of New York to interview young, sexy women about what they want from their men in bed. After many slaps (and a few phone numbers) we compiled the best nine tips to help our fellow mankind in the sack. Just remember guys, with great knowledge comes great responsibility.
A Little Kinky Think all women want it nice and slow? Think again. These women want it hot and heavy on the kitchen table, the bedroom floor, or just about anywhere else you can send them over the edge. They like moves that show a guy's strong, masculine side, just look at the advice below:
Kendra, Marketing Manager in Soho, 24 years old - "I love it when a guy tosses me around a little. I mean, nothing crazy, but it's a huge turn-on to know he's strong and likes being the boss."
Nicci, Fashion Designer in Hell's Kitchen, 29 years old - "I'm a sucker for biting. Oh, and sucking is good too! (Laughs) A gentle bite me on the neck and I'm yours. I like it when a guy rolls with my reactions too, the anticipation makes my heart race when he makes his way to my ears, nipples, toes and anything else he finds appetizing!"
Kim, Investment Banker in the Financial District, 32 years old - "Think you're busy? I eat sissy analysts for lunch and I don't have time for your trial and error in bed. Want to know how to please me? Here it is - the difference between a boy and a man is a man knows how to make me come. If you want this to last more than tonight I orgasm first, then you - or together. Got it?" 
The Pressure Cooker
New York women have their schedules packed, so when they finally have time for some all night sex, they want the ecstasy to last for hours. Don't move right in to the main event, tease them with foreplay and build the anticipation to the boiling point.
Julia, Freelance Graphic Designer in Greenwich Village, 30 years old - "That spot right between my middle and lower back, that's the jackpot. If you can work that, you're set. Lick me there, kiss me there or just move your whole body against it. And, you know, you're not too far away from my butt, so if you want to sneak a spank or two in there, go for it, just don't get distracted from the area I want you to focus on."
Sarah, Sales Assistant in Midtown, 23 years old - The back of my neck is magical. I like it massaged, kissed, and licked. Work the whole combination from my neck, down my shoulders and then my whole back. Tiny gentle kisses, (laughs) I'm giving myself goosebumps just thinking about it! I love a guy that can give me the chills with his kiss and his reaction to seeing me squirm and smile keeps things fun."
Grace, Graduate Student on the Upper West Side, 26 years old - "I don't need anything fancy from a guy - I just want a him to tease me a bit. Touch me, caress my body and slowly move to the sensitive points. Rub my legs, my stomach, kiss my legs up and down and plenty of attention to my inner thighs. I said slowly! I want a guy to spend time with my body, it makes me feel important - but after 30 minutes, if you're doing it right at least, I'll be more than ready to take it to the next step."
Back To Basics
Apparently men, we're not faring so well on some of the fundamentals - if a decade of mistakes from junior high to college graduation didn't teach you how to kiss or hold a girl, well, none of the tips above are going to save you. We didn't expect how much of a firestarter some of the straightforward moves can be - maybe there's not a big secret to great sex after all! AJ, Executive Assistant in Chelsea, 29 years old - "I love it when a guy uses his hands softly. Squeezing, grabbing, touching - it's all magnified 500 times if it's done softly and slowly. Turn off the lights, shut your mouth, and let your hands tell me everything you want."
Adina, Med Student in the East Village, 27 years old - "Great sex is about more than going in and out. Ever heard of um, a little foreplay? Chase me around, undress me slowly, find a creative use for your hands and stop repeating your old moves! I want to be surprised so get over your nervousness and don't afraid to be silly with me."
Jamie, Lawyer in Midtown, 32 years old - "Kissing is key. If he can't kiss, he probably can't do much else. Kiss all over my face, suck on my tongue, just keep it playful - when I guy spends alot of time kissing me I know he's completely into me, and that's the starting point for my inner-animal."
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